Comedian Jimmy Carr summed it up in my opinion - "Offence can not be given - it is taken". No such thing as an offensive joke, just someone who takes offence, or the joke would be offensive to everyone!!
What I described earlier as offence being in the eye of the beholder, but it doesn't quite work that way all the time. Situations and jokes, yes, but offence is indeed in the intention when we're talking about words, as Molly also points out, with many changing from perfectly innocent and inoffensive meaning into something entirely else, like indeed "wog", or even "nigger".
Also, I wonder if ignorance could really be called up as an excuse for racism...
The term "eye-tie" I always found quite funny, what it tells you in the first place is that people using it can't even pronounce "Italian" properly, the joke's on them... and yet, I guess the vast majority of them
could pronounce "Italian" if they wanted, but where would be the "fun", then? They know what they're doing alright, they DO mean offence, or at least mild disrespect, in this case
Now, we're talking about situations when discussing "racist" sitcoms, because that's what we see and are interested in, the "message" if you want, but what most people object to about these shows, now and then, is indeed the "rude" words used throughout, in the end they object to racist characters being portrayed realistically, which they seem to consider racist in itself... but what on earth could you do with Alf Garnett if he wasn't... well, Alf Garnett, for Pete's sake? That's missing the point so completely and utterly, imho...
Here's a funny anecdote... you might find it difficult to believe, but the Walt Disney Company has a blacklist of Mickey Mouse comics stories which cannot be reprinted in the USA because of their politically incorrect contents...
Years ago, a local publisher managed to circumvent the problem reprinting an old story, where Mickey had to deal with a tribe of cannibals, by painting the cannibals GREEN, so one wouldn't notice they were meant to be black folks, originally... if that doesn't take the biscuit for well-meaning silliness...
P.S. This weekend's going to be a treat... "New Tricks" has started in earnest and, much to my surprised delight, wasn't expecting it so soon, "Q.I." is back, too...
